CyberSuicide: UK man commits suicide live on webcam
Saturday, 15 September 2007

OK, now this is seriously disturbed, just as a warning the image below may be disturbing or offensive, as it depicts the final outcome.

A UK man, father of twins, apparently committed suicide live on webcam in a chat room on Wednesday March 21st. This event is being billed Britain's first "Cyber Suicide". Kevin Whitrick, 42, was found slumped on the floor of his home in Telford, Shropshire by police who broke into his house, after being alerted by a neighboring police force that was tipped off by another user of the PalTalk chatroom.

Whitrick was using a PalTalk chatroom, that was apparently a version of the classic Flame Room where users trade insults back and forth. Reports say that he was suffering from depression after being injured in a car accident last year, as well as the breakdown of his marriage, and the recent death of his father. Mr. Whitrick told the users of the chat room what he intended to do, some two hours or so before hanging himself.

After the fact, some members of the chat room expressed their regret, saying they felt sick about what happened, and that at the time they thought the whole thing was a hoax. They confirmed that Whitrick told of his plans to kill himself, and thinking it wasn't for real, they egged him on, telling him to make sure his webcam was turned on, until he eventually did indeed hang himself.

One anonymous user said: "He tied a rope around an uncovered ceiling joist and stood on the chair as he tied the rope around his neck. "Some of us chatroom users, talking to Kevin over text chat, microphones and video tried to convince him to step down, but others egged him on telling him to get on with it. "We just couldn't believe he was doing it - it was surreal. "One chatter said: 'F***ing do it, get on with it, get it round your neck. For F***'s sake he can't even do this properly'."  Another user who did not wish to be named said: "When Kevin stepped off the chair and was left dangling, the mood in the chatroom changed and people began to realise what they had just seen. "We started asking if anyone knew where he lived and saying they should contact the police. "I think someone contacted the police in their local area but sadly no one could get to him in time."

Shortly after, moderators on the site closed the feed from Kevin's webcam.

Tim Bennet, a Paltalk user, said: “We were in an insult chatroom where people trade insults and have a go at each other. A couple of people told me what he was planning to do. “Then Shyguy_17_1 turned his camera on. You could see him smash through the ceiling, then standing on a chair he hung a rope over an uncovered joist and tied it around his neck. “People were still having a go at him, telling him to get on with it, shouting abuse over their microphones and writing messages — but he did not respond. And then he did it. “I initially thought that it was a fake, because you couldn’t see his feet, but then his face started turning blue. I felt sick. The mood suddenly changed, everyone was concerned for him and started talking about calling the police and trying to help him.”

Another Paltalk user, who asked not to be identified, said: “I didn’t think it was real. I have known Kevin for over four years; he always went by his user-names of R1 and ShyBoy_17_1, but he told his close friends on the sites his real name. “I couldn’t believe he was doing this. He was on the screen shouting, ‘I’ve had it, you think I am full of s**t, not this time’. I hoped it was a stunt but I knew it was real. “Other people were egging him on, telling him to get on with it, but I was just thinking: this is dangerous. One guy who was chatting on his microphone shouted at Kevin, ‘F***ing do it, get on with it, get it round your neck. For f**k’s sake he can’t even do this properly’. “Others were talking to him with his old user-name R1 and telling him to stop it. Then all of a sudden it became clear it was not a hoax . . . I watched what happened and felt sick, others were claiming that he was faking it and was still stood on a chair but I knew he was dead.”

Kevin Whitrick is remembered by friends and family as a kind, conisderate man.  Mrs. Whitrick said: "Kevin was a loving father and family man. He was always the life and soul of the party, an extremely considerate and kind person and loved by many, he will be so sadly missed by us all. "Unfortunately Kevin had a very serious car accident in July 2006 and had never fully recovered back to full health."  Mr. Whitrick's stepmother Betty Whitrick, 74, told the Mail: 'Kevin was a bubbly kind of person, full of fun. I just don't know why he would do this. "He lived alone but he always cheerful when I saw him. I knew he was very into computers and he also used to like playing bowls."

Mr. Whitrick hung himself by smashing a hole in the ceiling, standing on a chair and putting a rope around the uncovered joist, tying it around his neck, and finally, stepping off the chair.

UK man commits suicide live on webcam

 
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Facebook in hot water with moms
Friday, 14 September 2007

Well, maybe it would be more exact to say, Facebook is in hot milk with moms, specficially, breastfeeding moms.

Karen Speed, 33, an Edmonton mother of three boys, ages 9, 4 and 20 months, has had her Facebook pictures and account deleted by Facebook, because her images of her breastfeeding her babies were deemed to be obscene content.  The result has been an incredible backlash from Facebook members and breastfeeding supporters around the world.  A new Facebook group set up to petition for a change in site policy – called "Hey Facebook, breastfeeding is not obscene!" – has grown from 7,000 members to more than 10,200 in the past few days.

 MySpace ran into the same problem earlier this year when it deleted the photos of a US woman breastfeeding her baby, but this activist backlash has had far broader reach, including supporters from as far away as Australia.

Speed, who runs breastfeeding support groups for new mothers, decided last April to start an online version on Facebook, inviting women to ask questions, discuss breastfeeding problems and make contact with other moms. Soon afterward, she decided to post photos that had been on the website of her other breastfeeding support group, BLISS. "I always think seeing moms breastfeeding, and especially older kids, is important," she said in a phone interview yesterday. It's not uncommon for new moms to encounter difficulties and give up in frustration without extra support or tips, she said.

This summer, she was one of several mothers who received a standard notice from Facebook that a picture had been deleted because it was considered "obscene." She wasn't told which one, but later realized a photo of her "tandem breastfeeding" her two youngest sons was gone, even though her breasts were not visible.

Within days, she received messages that four more images had been removed.

After responding in an email and asking for clarification of what Facebook considered obscene, Speed says, she could no longer log on to her account.

All discussion threads, details of an upcoming Breastfeeding Challenge event in Edmonton, questions from mothers seeking help and contacts were gone.

"After reviewing your situation, we have determined you violated our Terms of Use," a Facebook customer support representative named Anthony wrote Speed in an email on Aug. 27.

"Please note, nudity, drug use, or other obscene content is not allowed on the website." He informed Speed that "We will not be able to reactivate your account for any reason."

In the meantime, there are still many pictures of breastfeeding mothers throughout Facebook in groups like La Leche League, Canadian Breastfeeding Mommies and particularly the "Hey Facebook" petition site set up since Speed was shut down.

Facebook spokesperson Meredith Chin has reportedly said Facebook did not prevent mothers from uploading photos of themselves breastfeeding their babies, but removed content that was reported as violating Facebook's terms of use.

"Photos containing an exposed breast do violate our terms and are removed," Chin said, according to a recent report in The Sydney Morning Herald.

Kelli Roman, a 22-year-old mother of two from Fallbrook, Calif., started the petition group in the summer after Facebook deleted several of the breastfeeding photos on her personal profile.

"It offended me," she said over the phone from California. "I can't see how anything about breastfeeding could be considered obscene, especially with the other things you see on Facebook ... like scantily clad women and so much sexualized stuff."

In fact, one of the top discussion threads in the "Hey Facebook" group is one that contains links to ``offensive" material on Facebook.

Oh boy, Facebook really stumbled on this topic, this is going to blast them for a while, if the Pork Board thought they had a lot of negative press over their breastfeeding flap, this is going to blow that out of the water!

 
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Casino Niagara is Cheap
Friday, 14 September 2007

OK, so I decided to hit Casino Niagara a few days ago to try and make a few bucks.  (Yeah, I won $100 twice on the quarter slots, came out ahead $100 for the night).

OK, but boy, has the casino ever become El Cheapo.  Drove down and parked in the Park 'N Ride lot at the 420 & Stanley.  Well, I guess you shouldn't exactly call it a Park 'N Ride lot anymore.  So I get out of the car, and hop on the casino shuttle that was waiting, and head on down to the casino.  As the bus pulled into the casino, I noticed that you can now self-park for free if you're a player's card holder, which they used to charge an arm and a leg for.  (I think it was like $20 or something, wasn't it?  And like $50 for valet).  Apparently valet is like 5 bucks now or something, LOL.  Anyways, spent a good hour or two there, and went outside and sat on the bench to wait for the shuttle to go back to the parking lot.  OK so I see a red bus like the one I came in on, drop people off at the end of the drive, and then he just drove out of the casino, didn't pick anyone up.  Hmm.  OK.  So next comes a shuttle for the Hilton.  Wait some more.  Another bus with advertising all over it comes and drops off and picks up.  I didn't get on, since it wasn't marked with any casino shuttle markings or anything, figuring it was something different. Meanwhile it's been like 20 minutes and I was starting to think that maybe that was the right one.  Next bus comes, plain white with just something like Casino & Tourist attraction shuttle on it.  Got up and asked the driver where exactly he was going, and he told me that he went to three of the hotels, and asked what shuttle I was waiting for.  I told him the casino shuttle to get back to the parking lot, which is when he started looking at me like I was from another planet.  Dude's like "uhh, what parking lot?"  And I'm like, "uhh, the casino parking lot on Stanley".  And he's talking and looking like he's completely confused, like, I'm thinking, this isn't hard buddy, how can you not possibly know about the casino's parking lots and shuttle service.  Then he's asking me how I got down there, if I walked down, and I was like no, I took the shuttle.  What shuttle?  The bloody casino shuttle in the parking lot!  He seemed really confused at this point and then proceeds to tell me that as far as he is aware they don't have that shuttle service anymore.  I'm thinking that this guy is seriously disturbed or on crack or something at this point, but he tells me that maybe I should wander over to the front and inquire with an employee out front.  So I go over to the front and ask one of the valets if they still have a shuttle to get back to the parking lot.  The answer, which really isn't clearly displayed or even mentioned on the bus I came in on, is NO.  WTF?  I was like, you're kidding, they don't offer that anymore?  As an aside, the casino website doesn't mention this anywhere either, and the Niagara Falls tourist websites (including an official NF site I believe as well) still mention all over about the casino's Park 'N Ride lots with free return trip with a player's card, or $5 fare if you don't have a player's card.  So yeah, they don't exactly go out of their way to tell you anywhere that things have changed.  It's been at least a couple years since I went down there, but still...

 Anyways, the point is, come on now, this joint is raking in what, something like $1.3 BILLION a year for the government, and they can't provide the shuttles from their parking lots anymore?  Or even post a conspicuous sign in the lot that says "If you park here, you're hoofin' it back, jack".  (Which is, incidentally, what I ended up doing, fortunately it was a nice night and not the dead of winter or anything.)

 Also noticed while I was there that the complimentary beverages are bloody self-serve now (though I didn't check if you could still order a free pop or coffee at one of the bars still) which is kinda chintzy, and was half the attraction of the casino, being able to order a free drink and still be professionally served.  Seriously, people are dropping serious coin in this place and if you have to self-serve any comp drinks, that's really, really cheap.

 Oh well, I walked out with more than I went in with, so I guess I got my share anyways ;)

Had a very interesting experience on the walk back though, but unfortunately there's no way I can post about THAT online.  :D

 
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